Tuesday 29 January 2013

Waiter, waiter...there's something that's new on my plate

A fly in the soup and I could understand not wanting to eat. But MB seems to have taken objection to most things, apart from cheese, ham, cream crackers and marmite. Very frustrating after taking a lot of time to read recipes and try new things. Yesterday was chicken, leek, potato and cheese bake and it was very nice...this I know because I ate more of it than he did!

I understand that this is normal but it doesn't stop it being annoying. I don't want one those children who only eats yogurts. Eating is meant to be enjoyable not a blood pressure test!

I wonder whether it's worth giving in to it, letting him eat what he fancies and risk never being able to go back?

Answers and ideas welcome!

BB.

Saturday 26 January 2013

'Ello 'ello 'ello, what's APPening 'ere then?

Times they are a'changin', as someone once sang. With the vast array of technologies available to us, perhaps it's not surprising that most pre-schoolers are more IT proficient than me. Am wondering whether MB will be using a tablet computer at primary school rather than the good old Berol red handwriting pens?

On a slightly different note, I was told yesterday by a Clarks shoe shop employee that they have many 13/14 year olds visit the shop who cannot tie shoe laces. Worrying? I think so.

Anyway...with the most recent addition to our family being an ipad, it seemed only fair that MB caught up with the current trend so we found some apps to try.

So far we have tried Goodnight Safari and Happy Babies:-

Goodnight Safari has beautiful graphics but it's not that obvious as to what you have to do in order to get the animals to move/climb etc. MB likes the pics and sounds but is not overwhelmed by it. If you upgrade (£1.49) then you can also access games so we've just done that and will see what it brings.

Happy Babies is much more in yer face, with super bright, bold colours and simple yet effective sounds. We already have a Happy Babies book which is great, and MB has had a renewed interest in this since he's been using the app. It's quite a simple game that involves tapping the screen to get the animals' babies to appear (if only human labour was so simple, I hear you cry) but it's a lovely way of getting to know animal names and also learning big/small.

Looking forward to testing some new apps soon.

BB.

Monday 21 January 2013

(Baby) Bags of fun

BB's Bestie is about to sprout her 2nd infant so we've been chatting about the basics...no, not THAT kind of basic. 

What do you really need to take into hospital? 

Thinking back on my own experience of 5 days in hospital trying to coax MB out of hiding, I offered the following:-

For the star of the show (last time it will be you for about 20 years):-
Pillow - hospital ones have those crunchy wrappers, eek
Pants (does anyone ever use paper pants? Bestie says she did, so let's keep them on...geddit?!)
Water spray - it seemed positively tropical in hospital
Food/snacks - flapjack, biscuits, whatever you fancy...no, not for you men!
Chewing gum/mints - always good to be fresh
Bottles/cartons of drink - take advantage of that catheter time!
Bendy straws - you may need a drink and be unable to move from bed, laying down
Tissues - nice to have handy packs nearby
Nightwear - that quickly becomes daywear
Going home outfit - sadly but realistically, this will be maternity wear
Music and headphones - something to focus on, or block out the sound
Magazines/books/puzzles - it could be a long wait
Face wipes - could be hard to get to the sink
Lip balm - moisturise, moisturise, moisturise
Socks - weirdly feet can get cold even if you're boiling in general
Flip flops - public showers, say no more
Large bath towel - hard to get dry using hospital sized hand towels


For the birth partner:-
Phone & charger
Camera
Coins - for vending machines and car park ticket machines

For the new arrival:-
Sleepsuits - maybe a few different sizes
Jacket/cardigan - babies can't regulate their body temp
Nappies, wipes and cream - enough for a few days
Muslins - your faithful friend...can be turned into all manner of useful things

What things did you wish you had? Apart from a magic wand...

BB.

The not so hungry caterpillar

So today we had a minor breakfast victory; the first tasting of peanut butter (smooth) on wholemeal toast went very well. My paranoid side was on standyby for an allergic reaction to peanuts having not tested this before. Perhaps a heavy snow day was not the best time to have put this to the test! All clear though, phew.

But lunch was a different story. The pasta with creamy white sauce and ham was rejected again, although tasted. Same for chicken and chickpea stew, but again, it was tasted which is my general rule.

I know, already I offered a choice which is not great discipline.

But we ended up with rice cakes and chicken spread, with satsuma for pudding so not exactly fine dining, which was kind of the point.

So, do you stick to the one option rule or give in because you want them to eat?!?!

P.S. I write this as MB is asleep...at least he kept to his routine, which I doubt would have happened if he went to bed hungry.

P.P.S.  Who knew rice cakes could look so exciting? This was from last week...trying to introduce carrots and pepper...again!


BB.

Sunday 20 January 2013

Terrible Twos?

So, Mini Beeker appears to have entered the TT territory...although he doesn't hit the full 24 months until April, there are definite signs. Lots of throwing, sudden outbursts of frustration and over the past few days we've had some interesting food battles. Not actual battles with shields of pitta bread and banana swords but refusal to eat or even taste foods.

From the little I have read so far, this seems to be reassuringly 'normal'. I can only hope!

The question is, whether to take the hard line, or to give in and hope that requests for cheese at every meal don't last until he is 14.

How much does a 20 month old actually understand? Is he testing our resolve or actually has gone off most foods for a few days/weeks?

Time, and the fridge contents, will tell...

BB.